In the summer of 2021, I made the decision to sell my house and many of my possessions and begin the process of minimizing and downsizing. I moved from my house to a small apartment, then a large RV and finally, my van.
Why? Is the question that I am often asked, and I understand the question. It is not the norm and certainly not the “American Dream” to live full-time in an RV but for me, it was the perfect choice.
It has allowed me to slow down, simplify and focus on what really matters. My mindset has shifted from acquiring possessions to experiences. It has also allowed me to ask God, “What’s next?” and then have the freedom and flexibility to live it out.
It took a few years of work and planning before making this move. It was scary and there were many days of questioning why I wanted to do this. Luckily I met other full time RVers and nomads along the way. Having a support system of other like-minded individuals has been wonderful. The RV community is some of the nicest people that I have met.
First I had to transition my career to remote work. I started a private practice seeing clients virtually. I found that for the majority of clients, telehealth worked just as well as in person therapy and much more convenient for everyone.
Next, I had to start downsizing. This was easier than I thought it would be. I’ve been a minimalist for years and not particularly attached to stuff. Selling things on marketplace was a great way to make some extra money but I found that donating my things felt amazing. A few sentimental things remain in the family. Currently, everything I own is in my van and a small 5×5 storage unit.
Finally, I had to learn the RV “ropes”. Surge protectors, water filters, solar panels, roof seals, batteries and holding tanks to name a few.
The first couple years in the RV I lived stationary. Thanks to my parents, I was able to take some breaks during hurricanes and sweltering summer months and stay with them. This year, I finally made the leap and became an “RV nomad.”
Here are three of my reasons for this lifestyle:
1. Freedom of movement: I love travel and wanted to see the country. I did not want to travel as a tourist on vacation, rather slow travel giving me the opportunity to get to know an area and the people there.
2. I wanted to shake up my routine. After living a comfortable life in Florida for nearly 30 years I was ready for a change, a new adventure. I knew that it wouldn’t be easy and often uncomfortable, but life moves so quickly. If not now, when?
3. I value experiences over things. Rather than working to buy things for my home, my focus would be on experiences, people, and purpose
Over the past couple years RV life has taught me some lessons, Here are a few:
- It has taught me not to take things for granted. Long hot showers, dishwashers, washing machines, closets of clothing, strong Wi-Fi. These are luxuries. I am reminded daily of how little I need to be happy.
- The RV lifestyle promotes being outdoors. Spending hours sitting in a small space can get claustrophobic. Getting out into nature is much easier and enjoyable.
- The RV lifestyle reinforces not living a “comfortable life.” Getting out of my comfort zone challenges me to learn new things, adapt to new situations, meet people and gain confidence. It has also taught me to rely on God as so much is uncertain.
- There is so much beauty in our country. I’ve only begun to explore and already am in awe of the beauty all around us.
- People are generally very kind. I’ve never been good at asking for help, but this is changing. Being on the road solo requires sometimes asking for help. I have been pleasantly surprised at how kind and helpful people are.
- I can clean my ‘house” in 5 minutes. No more dedicating a Saturday to this chore!
I feel so fortunate to have the opportunity to live this lifestyle. I am excited to see where God leads me in this next phase of life.
Not All Who Wander Are Lost!